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Beauty &the beasts
Escaped from her terrible husband
Left behind by angry parents
She now runs a successful salon 
in refugee camp Kakuma


My parents rejected me because I married the wrong man. They left Kakuma for Australia and never want to hear from me again. But now I run a very successful beauty salon in the refugee camp and I help other women to start their own business. I want to help mothers who are capable of doing great things but are often idle in the community because of limited opportunities. I am Akech Mabior Deng, South Sudanese by nationality. I am 27 years old and a single mother of two kids. I divorced my husband because of lack of respect and misunderstanding. I myself was also raised by a single mother. My father was killed in 1998 during the civil war in the country. In 1999 my mother and I escaped to refugee camp Kakuma. Many of my family members were killed at that time. Some of them in front of my own eyes. I was only 7 years young. It was stressful and fearful for me. It took me many years to forget that traumatizing experience. It was hard for us to escape because militia men were all over but luckily, we were rescued by the government troops and we used their vehicle to move away from the war zone. We later joined other groups who were traveling to Kakuma and we travelled together until we arrived safely. I couldn't believe we had survived the war! Nevertheless, we found life was not easy in Kakuma but the good thing was that we had peace of mind. We couldn't get all the basic requirements for a good life though. My mother worked really very hard to make ends meet. She accepted double responsibilities of being a father and a mother. Our life was improving slowly. We were adapting to the new climate and environment and learning from other nationalities. I was enrolled in grade one. When I reached grade eight, I was 17 at that time, I married a man whom my parents didn't want me to marry with. They told me that this man was not responsible. But I didn't listen because I loved him and I chose to stay with him. I went back to South Sudan with him, leaving my mother and siblings in Kakuma. I had two kids with him. But later things fell apart. My husband exercised full power over me. He mistreated me, beat me, harassed me, insulted me. I started to realize that he never had loved me, but only wanted to play with my feelings. So, I divorced him. I left with my two kids to Kapoeta, a small town in South Sudan bordering Kenya. But the worst part was that my parents had disowned me because I didn't listen to their advice. They went to Australia and never wanted to hear anything from me again. I was extremely stressed! I had no one to turn to and was very much concerned about the future of my kids. I attempted to kill myself through poisoning. People came for my rescue. They took me to hospital and I was given medical assistance. Later-on I realized my decision was bad and I began to fight for my kids. I started a small business with the little cash I got from my friends. I saved and used some money from the business. Then I used the savings for transport to Eldoret, Kenya. There, I was lucky to be employed by a Kenyan hairdresser, in her salon. I learned a lot from her. And afterwards, in 2019, I was able to start my own salon in Kakuma. I named it Akech Beauty Salon. It is located in Kakuma-One, Hong Kong Area. In my salon, the services offered are weaving, braiding, pedicure, manicure, makeup, gel polish, hair relaxing, feather extension, wash style, deep condition, and scalp treatment. I started this salon business not only for my own benefit but also for the benefit of the community. So far I have trained five women in my salon and they all have now started their own business. Currently I have employed four women and they are doing well. They are hoping to start their own salons soon. I want to see people engaged in meaningful work, especially mothers who are capable of doing great things but are often idle in the community because of limited opportunities for women.
Interested to get into contact with Akech?  Email: info@i-am-kakuma.online
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